Episode 21

Host: Jill Mastroianni

Guest: Emily Bouchard

Why Prenups Aren’t Just for the Rich (or the Divorcing)

What if a prenup could actually strengthen your relationship?

In this episode, family dynamics coach Emily Bouchard joins Jill Mastroianni to challenge the stigma around prenuptial agreements. They explore how prenups, and the conversations that come with them, can deepen connection, build trust, and clarify expectations in relationships. Whether you’re engaged, remarried, or already decades into marriage, this conversation offers tools for more honest, compassionate dialogue around money.

Jill also shares a real-life story from my legal practice about how one couple’s lack of communication led to unintended and heartbreaking consequences, and how it could have been different.

If you've ever felt uncomfortable talking about money with someone you love, this episode is for you.

Listen to learn:

  • Why a prenup isn't planning for divorce; it's planning with intention

  • What financial infidelity looks like and how it erodes trust

  • How childhood money experiences shape adult relationships with money

  • The difference between the “context” and “content” of a prenup

  • Tips for starting prenup and money conversations with empathy and intention

  • What to do if red flags surface before the wedding

  • Why these conversations matter, even if you're already married (or never plan to be)

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If this episode sparked something for you, share it with someone you love-- a partner, a friend who's getting married, or a family member who avoids money conversations. 

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